Well duh, you’re like 12. Most guys your age are not going to be gentlemen. They have the mindset of a two year old and the brain capacity of a chipmunk. Seriously though girls, stop searching for a gentleman or the right guy. Your mom is right when she says you’ll know it when you see him. Just be patient and have faith, there is absolutely no rush. Same goes for the good guys out there, the right girl for you is out there, it just takes some time.